“12% to 43% of women in the U.S. self-report ”hypoactive sexual desire disorder” — a loss of libido, a decline of desire. Other estimates put the prevalence rate at about one-third of American women. The Association of Reproductive Health Professionals claims that 30% of women do not…
What is the answer to this? As a dude who can not possibly know the answer and have only my narrow observations to go on, could it be that this high of a percentage of women are so self conscious of their bodies that they can’t or won’t allow themselves to let go? Just let go and enjoy?
Again, I’m coming from the perspective of someone who can’t understand being in a state where I wouldn’t know how to get myself off. I know how that part of me works and there are times when I know I would be totally incapable of getting off but I know why. Not being in the mood, etc. But wanting to cum and not being able to? It’s not something I can identify with. It’s something that makes me sad to think about. What is at the root of that?